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Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Life is beautiful...

There is this interesting lady, let me call her Div'D, whose blogs i started following these days. Here I am posting her questions, in one of her blogs, on 'life', followed by my answers. I hope this might be helpful to few.

Why, Why, and WHY??

Why cant life be simple like turning a page in a book?
Why cant people live for themselves rather than for the society?
Why should people judge for what you are rather than what you do?
Why cant dreams come true?
Why should one feel jealous when the person you like the most is simply talking with another person you just like?
Why is falling in love is 'impossible' for some people?
Why is the past always haunting the decisions to be taken in the future?
Why am I mostly confused for so many things?
Why fighting comes so easily for some parents?
Why am I blabbering here so much?

Why, Why, Why, Whhhhhyyyyyyyy......???????

Here are the answers...
1. There is no fun in just turning the pages of a book (except while playing book cricket ofcourse). Reading and understanding the book is the fun/interesting part. The feel of life is in it's complexity.
2. We live for ourselves and act as if we r living for the society. It is our selfishness to have good name in the society but actually we are doing nothing for the society.
3. Most of us are egocentric. We find it difficult to accept someone who is better but holding the same or lower position than us. There are few people who do judge us on what we do too. Its just that we often neglect them and are more worried about those socially important people who did not bother about us.
4. It is good that there are at least somethings in our reach which are away from this real world. Recollecting which brings a smile on our faces. If they happen in real life we might be more worried about the results and consequences. So it is always better that dreams are dreams.
5. We are ambitious. Even if we may not try hard for it, We always want that the best around us should happen to us. We are worried if we may miss that opportunity.
6. Falling in love is an art which happens only to a beautiful heart. However, finding one's true love is a coincidence. Not all of us have beautiful or true hearts.
7. Because we care for our name in this society a lot. We don't want repeated mistakes to ruin our fame.
8. Because you are more worried about what your parents might think or feel when you do something. Your inner importance is on something else other than yourself.
9. As they don't care of how it would influence their child.
10. May be coz u r as jobless as I am :).

Life is beautiful. We often see it with eyes wide open. See it with open heart.

4 comments:

  1. Its often easy to answer questions... but not this easy in real life!! When u face them in reality and if u r trying to apply these answers then.. it might be difficult!! but still life is just once and it is beautiful.. sometimes it can be seen with open heart but most of the times our eyes makes the decisions and betrays us!! and maybe thats why I was blabbering so much then!! ;) Yet ur answers empazied on wat cud be done!! so thks!!

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  2. It is difficult to follow each one when seen individually. But on the wholesome what matters in life is to be happy. Temporary and ridiculous worries bother us most of the time. If we can see the life in a broader sense, that it happens just once, we can try and be happy all the time. It is something i have been able to put in practice. This simple logic keeps me happy all the time. People say i'm careless. But i don't bother. I am just not as much bothered as they are.

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